Alex & Brittany

Our Love Story

Brittany and Alex’s story began in August 2012. It was the start of Brittany’s second year at McMaster, and she had again made the Mac women’s softball team.

“Hi Mom.”
“Hey Britt. How was practice?"
“Good. I think we’re going to have a good team this year. The new girls are really nice. "Hey, can we go home before we go to the bank? I’m really sweaty, and I don’t want that cute bank teller to see me like this.”
“Really! No, we’re going to stop on the way home.”

Brittany looked in the mirror and brushed her hair back into a pony tail.

When they arrived at the bank, Brittany said “He’s here! We have to try to get him.” And by magic he called out, "Next.”

“Hey there. What can I do for you?”

Brittany quickly took a look at his name tag. “I need a certified cheque to pay my tuition.”
“Oh, where do you go to school?”
“McMaster.”
“Cool, that’s where I go too. What year are you in?”
“Second, you?”
“I’m in my 4th year. What are you taking?”
“Sociology.”
“Do you play ball for Mac?”
“How did you know?”
“Your shirt.”
“Oh ya.”
“I play baseball for Mac too. Well, here’s your cheque. It was a pleasure helping you. Maybe I’ll see you around campus.”

“Oh my God, Mom! He talked to me. Isn’t he cute?”
“He is, Britt. You will have to stalk him at campus this year.”
“Mom!”

It was a quiet Thursday night at the tanning salon Brittany worked at. She finished all her tasks and was doing some reading for her English course. The bell on the door rang, and she looked up. It was him! What was he doing here?

“Hey, we meet again. Sorry, I can’t remember your name.”
“It’s Brittany.”
“Well Brittany, I’m Alex. Can you check if I have anything left on my account.”
“Sure. What’s your last name, Alex?”
“Cabral.”
“You have three sessions left. Did you want to tan tonight?”
“Sure.”
“Right this way.”

I can’t believe he’s here. I have to text Mom.

“All done?"
“Yes.”
“Here, I’ll update your account. Hopefully, I see you next time.”
“Do you want to come to a party at my place this weekend?” Alex asked.

They exchanged numbers.

Brittany never went to that party, and she never ran into Alex until the spring of 2013.

During the 5th inning of Britt’s baseball, Michelle suggested that the team go to Boston Pizza after the game on Main Street for karaoke. Brittany, of course, was in. The girls were giggling when they walked in the door. The place was packed.

“Oh my God guys, Alex is here!” Alex was heading up to the stage. He sang “Get Lucky” by Daft Punk. He had a great voice. When he finished and was heading back to his table, Brittany and Alex made eye contact and exchanged a smile.

The next night, Alex texted Britt, “Hey, I have a business called Ace Mobile Detailing. I need some help this weekend. Would you be interested in working for me?”
Britt replied, “Sure. I love cleaning.”
“Great! I can check out your skills. I’ll pick you up Saturday morning!”

Brittany cleaned cars with Alex a few times that summer and always kept his number in her phone. She joked with the baseball team about how she was going to marry him someday.

Alex graduated from Mac and was making plans to move to California. Brittany headed back to Mac for her third year and applied for teachers’ college.

June 2015 came, and Brittany is officially a teacher! Alex returned from California and moved to Oakville, living with his detailing crew and ramping up Ace Mobile Detailing for the summer. On a whim, he called Brittany even though they hadn’t talked for over a year.

“Hey Britt, it’s Alex. Would you want to come clean cars for me this summer?”
“Of course.”

The romance blossomed from there. They spent the summer going to Jays games, Osheaga in Montreal, attending a friend’s wedding, and enjoying summer parties.

Brittany’s family did their annual day at the Toronto CNE. Brittany invited Alex, but he had to work. He texted her throughout the day and asked if she could stop by that night. Alex offered to pick Brittany up at the Oakville Go station on the way back home from the CNE.

The next morning, Brittany was upset.

“Mom, Alex is moving to Vancouver. What am I going to do?”

Alex headed to British Columbia and started working for Telus. He enjoyed exploring the sites and sounds of BC and making new friends.

July 2016 came.

“Mom, I got a text today . . . from Alex. He’s back in Toronto.”
“Really, did you text him back?”
“No, I don’t think I will.”

September 2016 came.

Alex is heading to a boat cruise with friends, and Brittany is on her way to Toronto Island when they bump into each other. They chat for a few minutes and make plans for Brittany to come to Toronto for dinner and catch up. On September 23, 2016, Brittany and Alex went on their first date to Cactus Club in downtown Toronto. They were officially a couple, and their love story continues to this day.

Alex proposed to Brittany on Christmas Day 2021 with a puppy, a gesture that not only stole her heart but also marked the beginning of their marriage journey. Now, their love story continues with Caesar by their side.

Where is the wedding taking place?

The ceremony and reception are taking place at two different locations. Please refer to our Schedule page to view locations, directions and times of the ceremony and reception.

Are kids welcome?

As much as we love your little ones, we will not be including them in the ceremony or reception due to limited numbers. Your invitation will be made out to “The (Your Last Name) Family” if your children have been invited and “Name and Name” or “Name and Guest” if only you and your significant other have been invited.

Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony will be taking place inside St. Benedict Church which will be air conditioned. The reception will be taking place indoors inside The Pearle Hotel & Spa. However, the majority of photos with the couple will be taken outside along the lakeshore path, pier and around the hotel grounds.

What time should I arrive?

We recommend you arrive 15-25 minutes prior to the ceremony to park and find your seat. The ceremony will commence promptly at 1pm, and we wouldn’t want you to miss a moment of our special day.

What happens after the ceremony?

After the ceremony the wedding party will make their way to The Pearle Hotel to begin pictures. During the time in between the ceremony ending and cocktail hour beginning, we invite you to explore our recommendations listed on our website and also take the opportunity to check into your accommodations.

Can I bring a plus one?

We have a strict guest list. Please refer to your invitation and who it is addressed to. Reach out to us if you have any questions.

What is the dress code?

We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We are requesting a formal dress code for our wedding day.

Where should I park at the reception?

There are various parking options in downtown Burlington;

If you choose to stay overnight at the Pearle Hotel & Spa, onsight valet parking is $35 per night/per vehicle.

If you are not staying at the Pearle Hotel & Spa you can still choose the hotels onsight valet parking for the evening for $15 per vehicle. (You can also come and go as you please).

If you choose to stay overnight at the Waterfront Hotel, parking is $15 per night/per vehicle. This parking lot is right across from the reception and may be the most convenient. Public parking is also available in this lot for $1.75 a hour.

There are also other municipal parking lots within the area which are all within a 3 minute walk to the reception. They are subject to applicable hourly and daily fees ($1.75 per hour) generally from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m . Parking is free after 6pm. Please refer to this interactive map for reference. https://burlington.maps.arcgis.com/apps/webappviewer/index.html?appid=bfc8311b160f4b1b894692046aea0661

Is there a hashtag I can use while sharing pictures on social media?

Yes, please use the hashtag #ABC2024